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Key takeaways

  • Approximately 40 to 60 percent of people with substance use disorders experience relapse - a rate comparable to relapse rates for hypertension and type 2 diabetes.
  • Terence Gorski's model identifies three stages of relapse progression: emotional relapse (isolation and poor self-care), mental relapse (bargaining and thoughts of use), and physical relapse (return to use).
  • Emotional relapse involves creating conditions for relapse without conscious thoughts of using - isolation from support, avoiding meetings, poor self-care, and unaddressed stress.
  • Common relapse triggers include hunger, anger, loneliness, tiredness (HALT), plus unmanaged stress, major life transitions, celebrations, and overconfidence about controlling use.
  • The response to relapse matters more than the relapse itself - people who re-engage with treatment promptly have substantially better long-term outcomes than those who withdraw and hide.

How common is relapse?

The statistics on relapse are frequently cited and frequently misunderstood. Approximately 40 to 60 percent of people with substance use disorders relapse at some point in the recovery process. This figure is sometimes presented as evidence that treatment does not work. It is better understood as evidence that addiction is a chronic condition with a characteristic relapse pattern - one that is, in this respect, similar to other chronic medical conditions rather than unlike them.

For context: the relapse rate for hypertension (blood pressure rising after initial control is established) is 50 to 70 percent. For type 2 diabetes (blood sugar rising above target range despite initial treatment) it is comparable. We do not conclude from these figures that hypertension or diabetes cannot be treated. We conclude that chronic conditions require ongoing management, and that setbacks are part of that process.

Relapse rates for addiction (40–60%) are comparable to those for other chronic conditions like hypertension and type 2 diabetes. We do not say someone has "failed" their blood pressure treatment because their numbers went up.

The chronic disease analogy

The model of addiction as a chronic brain disease - developed through the work of researchers including Alan Leshner and Nora Volkow at the National Institute on Drug Abuse - has been clinically influential and is supported by a substantial body of neuroimaging evidence. It is not a perfect analogy; addiction is more behaviourally driven than most chronic physical conditions, and recovery involves psychological and social dimensions that blood pressure management does not.

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But the chronic disease frame is useful precisely because it reframes relapse. In chronic disease management, a setback is information - a signal that the current treatment plan needs adjustment. It prompts a clinical response: reassess, adjust, continue. That is how relapse should be treated in addiction recovery. Not as evidence of character failure, but as a clinical event that calls for a clinical response.

Stages of relapse

Terence Gorski's influential model of relapse identifies three stages that typically precede a return to use. Understanding these stages is one of the most practically useful things a person in recovery can do - because the return to use is usually the last stage, not the first.

Emotional relapse

The first stage does not involve thinking about using. It involves emotional and behavioural patterns that create the conditions for relapse: isolating from support networks, not attending recovery meetings, poor self-care, not talking about feelings, and allowing stress to accumulate without addressing it. The person in emotional relapse is not consciously thinking about using - but they are creating the conditions that make it much harder to resist when the thought arises.

Mental relapse

The second stage involves the mind beginning to bargain. Thoughts about using begin to appear. There may be nostalgia for the substance, minimising of the consequences, or planning around how one might use without anyone knowing. The person is in conflict - part of them wants to use; part of them does not. This is the stage where intervention is most possible, if the warning signs are recognised.

Physical relapse

The third stage is the return to use itself. By this point, the person has moved through emotional and mental relapse - often over days, weeks, or months - before the first drink or dose.

Understanding this progression transforms relapse prevention. The goal is not primarily to resist the moment of physical return to use. It is to identify and interrupt the emotional and mental stages before they reach that point.

What triggers relapse

The most commonly cited triggers for relapse are captured in the HALT acronym: Hungry, Angry, Lonely, Tired. These are physiological and emotional states that reduce the brain's capacity for deliberate decision-making and increase susceptibility to craving. Beyond HALT, specific triggers include:

What relapse does not mean

A relapse does not mean that treatment did not work. It does not mean the person lacks willpower or commitment. It does not erase the progress made in treatment - the self-awareness developed, the coping skills built, the relationships repaired, the neurological recovery begun. All of that remains.

A relapse also does not mean that recovery is impossible. The research on long-term recovery shows that most people who achieve sustained recovery have had at least one relapse along the way. The relapse is part of the trajectory, not evidence that the trajectory cannot be completed.

What relapse does mean

A relapse is meaningful information. It signals a gap in the recovery plan - a trigger that was not anticipated, a coping skill that was not available, a support structure that was not adequate. It identifies where the plan needs to be strengthened. Understood this way, a relapse is not the end of recovery. It is data about what recovery needs to look like going forward.

The importance of the response

The most clinically significant factor after a relapse is not that the relapse happened - it is what happens next. People who re-engage with treatment promptly after a relapse have substantially better long-term outcomes than those who do not. The shame response - withdrawing from support, hiding the relapse, attempting to manage it alone - is one of the most dangerous aspects of the event. The relapse itself need not be catastrophic. The isolation that follows it can be.

This is why the way addiction treatment professionals and family members respond to a relapse matters enormously. A response that communicates shame and failure makes re-engagement more difficult. A response that communicates "this is part of recovery, let's adjust the plan" makes it much easier.

Planning for relapse before it happens

A comprehensive recovery plan includes a relapse prevention plan - a document developed with a therapist that identifies personal warning signs, specific triggers, coping strategies for high-risk situations, and a clear action plan for what to do if a relapse occurs. The action plan typically includes who to call, when to call them, and what the steps back into treatment look like.

Planning for relapse is not pessimism. It is the same kind of contingency thinking that anyone managing a chronic condition should have. It removes the decision-making burden from a moment of crisis and gives the person a clear path back to support.

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Christopher Murray - cognitive hypnotherapist and co-founder of Sansun Group

About the author

Christopher Murray

Dip.C.Hyp · HPD · NLP · MNCH

Christopher Murray is a cognitive hypnotherapist, NLP practitioner, and author of The Confidence Reset. Co-founder of the Sansun Group, he works with high-functioning individuals internationally and advises families and clients navigating addiction treatment and rehabilitation across Asia.

Sources

  1. National Institute on Drug Abuse. Addiction science. U.S. Department of Health and Human Services.
  2. Gorski, T. (1990). Staying Sober: A Guide for Relapse Prevention. Independence Press.
  3. World Health Organization. Mental health. WHO.